Anonymous: hey tally, when I was around 8-10 my sister did things to me that she shouldn't have done. the problem is that I think I repressed this memory till I was 14 and since then I have just been replaying it in my head every time I'm alone. I think I told my parents when I was younger, but I don't remember the outcome of it. I don't believe I made this up in my mind.. but I can't talk to anyone about it. I makes me sick to think about it. what should I do? I hate thinking about it all the time xx
You can talk lovely, if you dont want to say the words outloud then put it in a letter, I would suggest talking to a teacher, a school counsellor, perhaps a parent of a close friend? Confide in them and maybe ask them to help you talk to your parents about it, so its less daunting than doing it alone. Its very very common to suppress memories, then they arise again and it can be confusing, its not something people just make up in their head, its painful memories and can be very confusing. Ask your parents for the truth, ask if you told them before, tell them youre upset and dont fully understand what happened as you are piecing together these memories and you want the truth and you want something to be done about it xxx
Anonymous: I'm using the pills you are taking and I haven't lost anything why?:(
That wasnt me on the post, that was my friends post, I dont take diet pills, healthy eating and exercise is all you need in my opinion xxx
Anonymous: I feel like my boyfriend is putting work before me now and I understand work is important but if we cant hang out he makes it seem like its my fault. He is suppose to take 1 day off a week so we can hang out but he hasnt done that in a couple of weeks. He workes till 7pm sometimes and expects me to be able to come over at 830pm and its just not realistic for me cause I have to bus and im not comfortable bussing alone at night. Weve been all over the place the last month. so in love and then not
Tell him you dont like going on the bus at night and could he come to you instead, comproise is always good, try not to get mad that hes working, his boss will get pissy if hes taking a day off every week, its not normall allowed and im sure he wants to but perhaps hes saving up for something xxx
Anonymous: Hey Tally, I'm a little confused. Someone with the name "Tal Tal Jones" in the Wallflowers Jr. group on Facebook has you as their profile picture, and because of that & their name, I thought it was you. But they posted their url as "wisterly" in the group? So I guess that isn't you?...
Yeah its my sideblog! its me hehe :) xxx